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~Friendship~

Assalamualaikum wbt,

Friendship....What is a friendship? Why do someone said that friendship is valuable? Why is it hard to get a good friends? Why some friends stab us at the back?

I did asked this question to myself a few years back. Back then, I did not get the answer. But one day, when i asked someone the same question, this is what she said. "Friendship is a bond that connect a person with another person. There are various kind of friendship. But only 1 kind of friendship is valuable, that is a good friend who always by our side in times of happy and sad. Sometimes it is hard to get a good friends because, we ourselves did not commit ourselves to be a good friends to someone else. There are some friends who only befriends of us just to take advantage of us. That is a kind of friendship that we must avoid. " I have given a thought about what she said and i think i agree with her. We do need friends in life but that does not mean that if we do not have friends we can not live. I have always use this phrase when someone said "Asraf why are you alone".

I Cried When I Read It........

Dear reader,

Today after a very long time, and for the first time in this year, I were suddenly called to open a blog which belong to someone who is important to me. When I was reading her entry,my eyes caught on one of her entry which were being posted by her itself in her blog. For your information, she has the same birthday as my mother and my fiancee mother.In her entry, she briefly told her life experience since she was a baby and until now, a very beautiful young woman who is tough on fighting the disease that she got a few years back.Even now, she still struggling to fight the disease.Due to Allah swt gracious, the pain which she bears was being lighten and I think it was also thanks to her parents,her brother, her siblings and also those who she holds dear as a friend.For me, she is a very good sister.Never I met someone who is very polite as she is.Nevertheless, the thing which made me cried is even I said that she was important to me, I did not know that the pain which she bears before this is this big.